Thursday, July 9, 2015

Self-Compassion and Student Voice

This is a link.



Student Voice



The 3 Guiding Principles encompasses a value system for encouraging student voice. It’s almost like a platform for it.








The three principles are

 self-worth

engagement

purpose

 Quaglia’s video defines aspirations in students exampled by actively working on goals they’ve set for themselves. We have to first hear them. We need to hear them and then help them seek their goals. “The voice breathes the reality…” Ask them questions. “connecting their doing with their goals…” their voice matches with their actions…Give them a voice. Our Framework defines what student voice is. The emphasis again is on listening…for real! I love that. “Student voice truly takes off when teachers and students engage in meaningful dialogue about real and important issues”




"Students have something worthwhile to say."  
"When students have a voice, they are seven times more likely to be academically motivated."

7x!!!!!!!!!!!!





Student voice and aspirations...often students will not share aspirations...when students begin working on goals in school, they'll more successfully attain those goals. What creates students' sense of self worth. They ask students if their teachers care if they're absent and half said "No". Crazy!

Take Aways:

Ask students what they want to do.
Converse about it.
Seek to encourage them to work on their goals while at school.
Listen
Get their opinions on things.






What is compassion?

Noticing
Being kind and care
Remembering that imperfection is part of the human experience


Sources:

Brainwaves Video Anthology. (2015, June 23). [Video File] “Russel Quaglia – Student Voice”. Retrieved July 7, 2015 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsClwQXUXAI


Neff, Kristin. (2011, January 18). [Video File]. “Self-Compassion Part 1”. Retrieved July 9, 2015 from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tyl6YXp1Y6M.


Quaglia Institute for Student Aspirations. (n.d.). Retrieved July 10, 2015. 



Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Stacy York 2

“every neuron in the brain develops through relationship”

 “If they’re being curious with you that means you’ve created a safe environment, then welcome, bring it on.”
Play is an important prevention strategy.” 





Outline

Relationship in the classroom


  • What do I do already?
We tell stories, laugh, joke in a respectful manner, tell about our weekends each Monday, know each others' quirks, create art and play games...

  •  What can I do?
I can (and have meant to, but haven't) keep track of students informally each week. I could make sure that I speak with each one and record something about it. It'd have to be part of my routine or it wouldn't get done, though. For instance, I could have a set time in my schedule while the class is reading, and I could meet with each one individually. 

  • Is this something I can keep track of and how?
See above...possibly, though, I could have a notebook with a page for each kid. I could keep track of what they're struggling with so that I can go back check later to see if it got taken care of in a satisfactory way. 

Listening


  •   What does listening look like?
Eye contact and saying back: "I think I'm hearing you say..."
v       How do I teach it?
By doing it! And pointing out what I'm doing once in a while...
  Specific Case (Student C)

  •   How can I connect better?
I really am not sure yet. Ideas include written journaling for the first few minutes of class. Doing a project with the student which he feels good about...maybe building something.

  •  What can I do to relieve fears for the student?
Never freak out and act as if some thought or action is different or abnormal. Normalize the feelings and try to talk if possible. Be trustworthy in my daily dealings so that the student can see that. 





Reflections on Stacy York 2

Loss…intense emotion…what does it mean? The activity Stacy began with uncomfortably brought participants close to feeling heavy loss. Only this was imagined loss, not real. The feelings we got were enough to affect the body physically. What does that mean for our kids who experience loss? I have a student that has seen a lot of trauma. He seems distant so often. I understand him that much more now. I sit and reflect back on what he may be seeing in his mind’s eye…no wonder he tends to not focus on school. I just need to be able to reach him better next year! I’m excited to further develop the safety of school with our team next year.

Stacy York’s speaking resonates with me and makes me want to jump up and down! Her R – list is powerful. The fact that she hits the same things over and over again is powerful. Relationship is money in the bank.” Relationship is the difference between survival and not for some kids. One of the professionals on the video stated that “every neuron in the brain develops through relationship”.  Ms. York places high importance on relationship. “If they’re afraid, they won’t learn.” If students don’t have a relationship with you, they learn less. 

Part of relationship is sharing. Sharing also reigns huge in meaningfully dealing with traumatized kids, or anyone for that matter! “If it’s shareable, it’s bearable.” The emotional relief from being able to share needs to be available to kids. Sometimes kids won’t talk at school. We can try to find them a mentor outside of school if need be. The student I’m thinking of most often during this class has been working alongside men in the community this summer. I’m so glad! They’re providing him with praise (reward) and modeling of how to be a successful, functioning, contributing human being in the community. Fantastic!

Another piece Stacy encourages is curiosity. “If they’re being curious with you that means you’ve created a safe environment, then welcome, bring it on.” I bank on this. Kids are naturally curious. They naturally want to learn. In thinking about my one student, I’m happy in that I’ve been encouraging him to pursue interests (as are many people), and now I know I can legitimately keep encouraging him to be curious. That has value. He can feel free to pursue his interests (ranching and cows) and maybe someday share it someday with other students, etc.

I have to say that Stacy brings a refreshing, reachable, practical picture of brain development and helping traumatized kids. Relationship, rhythm, repetition, etc.  This is attainable for us. We can relate with our students. We learn about relating in all of life. Life is teaching us how to be a better teacher. “If you’re an adult and there are children in your life…and you know the child has been exposed to something potentially traumatic…they do need your attention…your kind support.”
One last note, “Play is an important prevention strategy.” More relationship. Such a marvelous repetition of relationship. The repetition of the same things Stacy brings to her teaching is marvelous. I can use this. And that is like gold to me as a teacher.





Sources:

 Trauma Informed Skills for Educators - Stacy G. York, LCSW - 1 of 3. (2015, May 27). Retrieved July 10, 2015. 


 Trauma Informed Skills for Educators - Stacy G. York, LCSW - 2 of 3. (2015, May 27). Retrieved July 10, 2015. 


 Trauma Informed Skills for Educators - Stacy G. York, LCSW - 3 of 3. (2015, May 27). Retrieved July 10, 2015. 

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Mindfulness and Happiness



Quotes:
“Open your eyes and be surprised that you have eyes to open!”
“This day, right now, is unique.”
“Open your eyes, look at that.”
“Flip a switch and there is electric light”
“drinkable water, a gift”
“Open your heart to all of these blessings”

“That everyone that you meet this day will be blessed by you.”


Take Aways:


ü  Take time to look out the window of my class with my kids to see beauty.

ü  Take time to go on hikes if possible and model enjoying nature.

ü  Take time to listen to birds.

Take time to see the beauty in a flower...study it. It's O.K. to take time with these things!



TED Ideas worth spreading

Money CAN Buy Happiness...what?! How you spend money actually affects your present levels of happiness. Apparently spending money on others raises your happiness levels while spending on yourself doesn't actually do anything for your happiness. Crazy!

Take Away:
Think of ways to give as a class. The dodgeball teams which participated in this study actually did better within their league!! My class could excel more if we could give to each other.
ü  Write thank you notes to each other.
ü  Use class bucks to buy items for each other.
Spend time working on each other's projects.



Thank You Note Project


Write a thank you note to at least one person every day this week. This must be handwritten.  At the completion of the campaign, reflect upon
1. those selected for this honor. 
The people chosen were people from work, my landlady, my pastor and his wife, a friend.

2.Were there entries that surprised you?
It surprised me that there was so much I was thankful for that I don’t think to write down. It felt a little weird writing it down, actually. Then I thought, “The person getting these will probably really appreciate the thought.”

3. Was there a pattern to the selection and reasons for writing the notes? 
I just moved this year…the pattern I noticed was that I wrote mostly to people who welcomed me into town and kept making sure I was ok.

4. Could you think of a different person every day of the year?
I could. It might be hard, but I think it’d be totally worth it. And also it would make me enjoy the things they’ve blessed me with more fully.

5. What do you think about this exercise as a means of building resiliency?
It has power. It has power to change that bad feelings, thoughts…energy if you will…into something positive.

6. What if you did this for a year--what impact do you think it would have if any?
It would make me more mindful, more appreciative of people in my life. I think it might make me see the good in people quicker, too. I’d be looking for it even more. I might not get irritated as quickly because I would be in the mindset of being thankful rather than the mindset of finding something to complain about or be upset with.

7.  Last but not least, HOW would this transfer over to a classroom?  How could you teach similar content to students?
I can tell you what we do already. My kids wrote to people in the school they appreciate. I told them to write to somebody who, when you think about it, you would really miss if they were never here. What do they do for you? Write and thank them. The kids loved in general and the recipients sure did too! I think it makes the kids more grateful for what they have. It makes them look for the good and appreciate it.


Thich Nhat Hanh


This is a link.











This man speaks peacefully and thoughtfully of meditation and breathing to attain peace. He embodies Buddah's words, "I'm awake".

Breathing, he claims, brings the spirit back to itself. It centers you. Breath properly to live properly...to be fully alive and awake.


Create something beautiful.  

1. What was it like for you to do this exercise?--what connection do you make with the study of mindfulness (if any).  
A lot! This project is in the genre known as “Zentangle”. It takes time. Time doing the same thing over and over. For example, the bottom left hand corner patter is tiny blocks patterned relatively intricately. That took time and while I’m counting and coloring, I think. I think and am aware of a small space. The spiral didn’t take a lot of thought, but it was fun! I graduated the sizes of ‘pearls’ and took great joy as it shaped into a pleasing design. Other people looked at it too, and so enjoyed it. During the whole project, I just concentrated on this small, yet beautiful thing. It did take a while, as my tiny little black pen scratched over every part of that design, but it was time spent in concentrating on something beautiful that I could do.
2. How do you use this as an intervention that will have an impact on your class?
My kids, most of them, LOVE projects such as this. They can focus their attention on something manageable, doable and enjoyable to others. I foresee using this more during this coming year. I’d like to design a huge poster with spaces for each student to create designs in. They will work as a group to create a project of beauty together. That encourages community and team feelings.  Awesome!

3. Imagine you are a teaching coach and want to introduce mindfulness school wide--what would you explore with your adult colleagues and what kinds of change would you anticipate happening (if implemented) after a semester? 
I would explore organic curiosity first. A child has organic curiosity. They look with wonder on everything. My niece delightedly showed me a ladybug on Sunday. That’s cool! Ladybugs are beautiful! Their wings, their shiny, red wing covers, and even their tiny eyes. Yes, I would explore serene, quiet, excited, passionate curiosity to help them to see everything, to observe. The video with the older man and child stated, “Open your heart to all of the blessings.” We learn to do that and we treat colleagues and students better. We feel gratitude. We are mindful of the joy in life. We are mindful of our impact on the joy and peace of others’.  

I like the idea of creating something that encourages community and team feelings.  This would be a great project-I hope you get to it next year!  Organic curiousity-WOW!

What an amazing piece of art!  Thanks for sharing it with me! 

Sources:

Michael Norton: How to buy happiness. (2011, November 1). [Video File]. Retrieved July 10, 2015.


TEDx Talks. (2011, June 11). [Video File] “Gratitude | Louie Schwartzberg | TEDxSF”. Retrieved July 7, 2015.


Shaun Achor: Happiness



How can I NOT teach to the average?
Keep in mind that potential is not always average. Study the ones who are not average. Spend time on them. I had a student last year whose scores were low in reading, but super high in listening skills. How could I better teach toward his above average listening skills? Spend time studying his learning.

What is the ‘lens’ Achor is talking about? What impact does this have on my teaching?
10% of my happiness can be predicted by my external situation! What?!

How will I reverse the formula for happiness and success?
“If I work harder, I’ll be successful. If I’m successful, I’ll be happy.” Happiness is on the opposite side of success.
Raise present levels of positivity in the present.
How? Write down three new things we’re grateful for.
Journal about 1 positive experience.
Exercise
Meditation (get over cultural ADHD)
Random Acts of Kinds (one positive email a day)

What is the “Happiness Advantage”?
Your brain at positive preforms better. Energy, creativity, resiliency, productivity increases as levels of positivity increase!

What are the “Small Ripples”? How can I use this for myself and my students?
Ripples of positivity create more. We are positive which affects others who are in turn positive.
What can I do for myself? First, I can do the exercises Shawn Achor has done with companies. I can train myself to be positive.  My positivity should come out without me thinking about it. My positivity affects the positive levels in my students. Individually they can model positivity for each other and for the rest of the school. Each little thing acts as a rock in a pond which produces ripple after ripple rolling out from the first act. How cool!


Source

Achor, Shaun. (2011, May). “Shaun Achor: The Happy Secret for Better Work”. [Video File]. Retrieved July 7, 2015.



School to Prison Pipeline

What creates problems?

This "American Life"...Is This Working?
this is a link! =)

Memorable quotes

"Deny them learning time...ridiculous." -from "Is This Working?"

"They are learning they are bad." -from "Is This Working?"

"Fulling convinced the teacher was the enemy." -Tunette Powell

"I went into kindergarten know I was bad. I went into first grade knowing I was terrible." -Tunette Powell

"I saw kids laugh and have fun in school."

The assistant principal at Lyons (41:45) "The feeling is more of a loving parent teasing a grown child about what an awful teenager he was."

Relationship again. This is so Stacy York!

As I was listening to this, I thought, what if the schools (the people who work in them) took time to get to know all the families of their kids?

What if they could Relationship...relationship is everything.



The point of school…and a note on relationships…


What are we preparing kids for? Such a fantastic question!! I ask it all the time.  Nelson got into a very unfortunate altercation with a plainclothes policeman which made several teachers question what they're doing. I understand that! We ask ourselves constantly.

There can’t be an easy answer. It’s a fundamental issue. What is the point of school? What are we preparing kids for?  Can it be to pass on experience of generations? That’s the point made by Gregory in The Seven Laws of Teaching. Now if it is, indeed to pass on the experience of generations before, then education will vary to some extent as it fulfills that. I have not reached a completely satisfactory conclusion. This would be a

That part is unresolved, but this audio further resolves my belief in the need for knowing your kids, knowing your families and building good relationships with them. These kids are being turned around and given opportunity because of solid relationships they’re developing with teachers who truly care and obviously love their jobs. How cool is that?!

Points to remember...

·         Build relationships

·         Think about long-term consequences

·          

Why is Kyle Thompson Under House Arrest?



I think the title is slightly misleading, house arrest means you can't leave the house. I think he was banded from activities...but that's a side note =).



That said, this raises an interesting question, does the punishment fit the crime? A little scuffle with a teacher, a scuffle that was allegedly more play than anything, shouldn't result in being banned from school and activities. It is hard to yet deal with this story as I'm not sure what he was in trouble for. The video seemed to insinuate it was for the play, but doesn't directly state so. It would seem atrociously unfair to ban a kid from school for a play tug-of-war.



Takeaways…

·         Be vigilantly fair

·         Guard against misunderstanding

·         Be aware that kids don’t take their actions as seriously as we do at times.





 Prison Education…

Several interesting points here…


The proposed correlation between No Child Left Behind and expelling students is an intriguing thought…sad though.

This topic comes up at our school lunch table. It’s a small school, and high school down to elementary teachers generally eat together. There are a couple of arguments. One is that students needing a severe punishment shouldn’t go home since that’s probably what they want anyway (and also brought up in the radio program). Our principal actually has the students eat alone in the front office with him. That actually works rather well.

Back to the correlation…it would be a huge temptation for schools to do just that… ‘weed out’ the ones causing averages to plummet. It’s not right, but it’d be a huge temptation especially if the students were consistently resisting all attempts of help. Once again, not right, but a huge temptation.

The next point is painfully clear. Students whose education has been disrupted by prison easily fall behind because they can’t catch up let alone keep their mind on their work. This is speculation on my part, but I imagine prison is traumatic and traumatic experiences tend to disrupt thoughts we’ve learned. That is tough! These kids have a lot going against them. Most of them have done a lot against others, too, I must remember, before I get single-sided vision here.

Obviously prison wasn’t meant to be a comfortable experience, but it shouldn’t be destructive to good things. Education is good. I’d like to further explore what has been effective within the prison system. Going back to resilience and the video Stacy York showed…students with a positive adult in their lives are able to bounce back. Could that be a solution? Mentors? Long-term ones?

“This all-too-common way of looking at the issue prevents stakeholders from approaching the education of young people in juvenile facilities with the financial, organizational, and personal investment necessary to make it a meaningful experience” (Knefel 2015) (bold added). Getting people to make a personal investment…to keep kids from getting lost in the system…is a the key in my estimation. Money obviously holds power. But I dare to say the biggest deal is the personal investment.

“What is desperately needed is a more positive approach that meets the basic needs of youth, especially those living in high-risk neighborhoods, for nurturing and supportive adults…” comes from an article issued from the U.S. Department of Justice from 1997.


The Scotland Miracle
“I felt excluded all my life,” he says. “Now here was the police, who used to exclude me all the time, and they were trying to include me.”

This story underscores the beauty of redirecting thinking from dark, destructive mindsets to healthier, happier and more constructive ones. The fact that the police are part of groups which help offenders and a personal level supports what we’ve been learning. I go back again to Stacy York. Relationship. These offenders, predominately male, are building relationships with ‘the enemy’ or those they used to perceive as such. Awesome!

That said, this quotes leaves me wondering about the philosophy here. The offenders are quoted speaking about how they felt but there were no quotes showing they were as aware of how their actions affected those policemen. It didn’t sound very humble to me…of course, I really have no idea what else was said by this man…it just sounds kind of unfair in a small way to me.




This is linked =) click on it...

Great resources...like an online newspaper...full of accounts, news, photos, etc pertaining to the juvenile justice system...go figure =)

Excellent source to constantly access...


Sources

Glasgow smiles: How the city halved its murders by 'caring people into change' (n.d.). Retrieved July 1, 2015, from http://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2015/apr/06/glasgow-murder-rate-knife-gang-crime-police


Grossman, J., & Garry, E. (1997, April 1). Mentoring-A Proven Delinquent Prevention Strategy. Juvenile Justice Bulletin.
 Juvenile Justice Information Exchange - Juvenile Justice News for People Who Care About Children and the Law. (2015, June 29). Retrieved July 1, 2015, from http://jjie.org/


Knefel, M. (n.d.). States Are Required to Educate Students Behind Bars. Here's What Really Happens. Retrieved July 1, 2015, from http://www.thenation.com/article/205129/states-are-required-educate-students-behind-bars-heres-what-really-happens#


Scholl, D. (2013, September 24). Why Is Kyle Thompson Under House-Arrest? Retrieved June 30, 2015, from https://www.aclu.org/blog/why-kyle-thompson-under-house-arrest?redirect=blog/racial-justice/why-kyle-thompson-under-house-arrest